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Originally posted by elixir:
i have venus gemini 19 degrees
mercury in cancer 28 degrees
Second person has venus virgo 19 degrees
Mercury in scorpio 21 degrees
Third person has venus virgo 26 degrees
Mercury cancer 25 degrees
Based just on this one aspect, things would be easier with person #3 because the square is looser and the conjunction between your Mercurys is tight.
With the 2nd person, you have a loose trine between your Mercurys and that is good, but it's a VERY tight square between the Venuses.
However, squares between Venuses aren't too bad when communication is good. You'd have a difference in tastes and how you express affection, but you would be able to talk about it and find ways to make it work. Sharing, taking turns, talking about how to be fair, clearing up things before the tension builds would all be needed.
It would be like going to a rock concert one weekend and seeing the ballet the next. One person likes spicy food and another can't stand it, so you order in from two different places and enjoy them both together. One person wants lots of hugging and the other doesn't so you decide to compromise like hug a lot in private and keep hand off in public. Those are just some examples of how things could work when the Venuses are square but the communication is good. Venus wants to get along and is generally willing to compromise unless under serious stress in the natal.